便宜占多了,灾祸跟着你。

古训云:“勿贪小利,勿慕虚名。”

虚名如泡影,弹指可破;小利如香饵,等人上钩。

智者若愚,喜欢让利与人,自己吃亏;愚者若智,占了便宜,却还沾沾自喜。

殊不知占人便宜,只是眼下甜头,背后紧跟着的,只有灾殃。

便宜占尽,就是灾祸

北齐道学家刘昼说:“苟贪小利,则大利必亡。”

在蝇头小利上纠缠不清,就会损失更大的利益。

天下没有免费的午餐,更没有白占的便宜。

春秋时,虞国和虢(guó)国接壤,晋国攻打虢国必须经过虞国。

虞国和虢国结盟,与晋国分庭抗礼。

晋国对虞国说:“我送你黄金千两珠玉十斛,请借一条路给我,将来一起平分虢国。”

虞国收到礼物大喜过望,同意了晋国的请求。

结果,晋国不仅打下了虢国,还在班师途中灭掉了虞国。

虞国两边获利,占尽便宜,可惜黄金美玉还没捂热,就身死国灭,人财两空。

占朋友的便宜,是自断臂膀;占敌人的便宜,是作茧自缚。

全真派祖师,吕洞宾有言:“当为万全之筹算,戒乎小利之贪求。一着不到,满局皆休。”

智慧的人深谋远虑,贪小利的人只顾眼前。

俗话说,占小便宜,吃大亏。别为了芝麻,丢了西瓜。

一味贪小便宜,不辨是非利弊,注定有百倍千倍的灾祸等着你。

聪明的人,都肯吃亏

《道德经》中讲:“圣人后其身而身先,外其身而身存,以其无私,故能成其私。”

精明的人,处处为自己打算,一点亏都不吃,这样的人很少有大成就。

一心为公,无私奉献的人,往往得道多助,总能实现自己的理想抱负。

“无私”是一种先人后己的人品,“成其私”则是成己达人的境界。

世人皆知,管仲和鲍叔牙是一对至交好友。

却不知,若没有鲍叔牙的谦退,就没有管仲的发达,更不会有齐国的称霸。

管仲的前半生,贪人钱财,被罢过官,当过逃兵,还选错了阵营。

但当齐王决定重用鲍叔牙时,

鲍叔牙却退位让贤,对齐王说:“国之栋梁不是我,而是管仲。”

果然,鲍叔牙放弃了高高在上的权柄,成就了管仲的美名,更成就了齐国的伟业。

《史记》记载:“天下不多管仲之贤,而多鲍叔能知人也。”

意思是说,齐国功盖天下,人们不去称赞管仲贤明,而都去称赞鲍叔牙知人善任,舍己成仁。

《道德经》:“天道无亲,常与善人。”

天道是公正无私的,善人多福,恶人多祸。

吃一点亏不要紧,人欠你的,天会还你。

《道德经》中讲:“福兮祸之所倚,祸兮福之所伏。”

占便宜表面风光,其实暗藏凶险;吃亏表面委屈,其实积了阴德。

宁可天下人负我的,是谦谦君子;宁可我负天下人的,是卑鄙小人。

人生在世,仰无愧于天,俯不怍于人,懂得不负不欠,才是有福之人。

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